Adaptability and struggling with change
One takeaway message from the past 12 months is that life is unpredictable
and change is constant. For so many of us, what we may have considered to
be our normal routine has been ridden over roughshod by COVID-19. In
fact, even with the buoyancy brought about by recent developments, it still
seems that the future is somewhat uncertain.
Consequently, lots of us are feeling higher levels of stress and an
elevated sense of unease, perhaps due to a combination of insecurity and a
feeling of a lack of control. For young people, Covid-related change has only
added to the usual transitions of moving to senior school, being taught by new
teachers, moving house or studying a new subject.
As I wrote last week, many of us struggle with change, especially when it
occurs across multiple areas of our lives simultaneously, as it does at the
moment! If change is so constant, however, why do we sometimes struggle
with it so much?
Moshe Levey (2015), from a university in Jerusalem, asserts that the reason
may be evolutionary. Humans are ‘wired’ to stick to their routines
because it is safer and poses less risk to our survival by subjecting us fewer
to potential dangers. Levey also proffers that routines also take up less
processing in our brain and use less energy. So, when we have to
change our daily habits, this can put a strain on our brain’s processing power,
causing us to feel stressed. Interesting, but, for me, there are other
forces at work too.
Even if Levey is at least partly correct, we can help our children cope with
change by fostering their adaptability through developing their confidence in
stepping out of their comfort zone, learning from others, adopting a positive
mind-set, reflecting on past experiences, and seeking support.
We’ll certainly be making the most of this period to both model these
aptitudes and cultivate them in our children, whilst we also do all we can to
minimise any anxiety they may feel.
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